The Anniversary Dance – A Wedding Moment Your Guests Will Remember

March 17th, 2015

The Presentation of “The Anniversary Dance”

Following The First Dance or The Father/Daughter Dance.

You invite every couple that has been married for more then one year to please come out on to the dance floor. You may also say “we will wait so please take your time and come on down”. Some of your guests may respond slowly so be patient. You will be surprised at how many guests will participate.

A great song to use is “That Old Feeling” by Rod Stewart, track #5 on “The Great American Songbook” Album. There are so many differant songs you can use. There may be one that has a special meaning to you and your family. Make it one to remember.

Once your dance floor is full you tell your guests “you are to dance and when I stop the music I will instruct you on what to do”. You will then start the music and play about 20 seconds and stop it. At that point you will say “Everyone who has been married for less then 5 years please leave the dance floor”. You once again start the music and say “please dance”. This time only play 15 seconds. Then ask that every couple that has been married for less then 10 years to please leave the dance floor. You will repeat this for every 5 years. (note: keep a piece of paper beside you and mark off each year as you go so you don’t loose track)

When you dismiss the couples of 15 years or less. After they have left the dance floor you say: “The couples remaining represent True Love”. Repeat this with the following.

15 years – True Love

20 years – Caring

25 years – Acceptance

30 years – Patience

35 years – Understanding

40 years – Tolerance

45 years – Endurance

50 years – Devotion

55 + years – Everlasting Love

Once you’ve reveled the longest married couple you step out on to the dance floor and introduce them and say “ this couple represents the love and devotion that we all strive for” “Would everyone please join us on the dance floor for this celebration” Then finish the song “That Old Feeling” followed up by Unchained Melody or Can’t Help Falling In Love. This presentation will be one of the highlights of the reception.

Planning Your Financial Future

December 4th, 2014

 

Planning Your Financial Future

Selecting the right bank is not difficult if you know what to look for, and this is often one of the decisions newlyweds have to make immediately following marriage.
 
In choosing a financial institution, Read the rest of this entry »

Recipe For a Successful Marriage

December 4th, 2014

 

Recipe For a Successful Marriage

 

Ingredients:

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Encore Weddings and Reaffirmations

December 4th, 2014

 

Encore Weddings and Reaffirmations

Not too long ago, encore brides wore a pink suit and wed in the clerk’s office in City Hall. Understandably, since so many weddings taking place around the country are second or subsequent marriages, the rules for “proper” behavior have Read the rest of this entry »

Weddings and Divorced Parents

December 4th, 2014

 

Weddings and Divorced Parents

 
If your parents are divorced, several difficult decisions must be made in order to accommodate both parents.
 

Your invitations

The parent with whom you have been living the longest should issue the invitation. The other parent is not mentioned. However, if both parents agree, the invitations may be in both names.
 

Introducing future in-laws to each other

Protocol dictates that the first introduction should be to the parent with whom you have been living, followed a week or so later by a visit with your other parent.
 

Seating at the ceremony

The bride’s mother and her immediate family (parents, husband and children) are seated in the first row. The second row is left empty. The bride’s father, after walking the bride down the aisle, sits with his present wife and parents in the third row. The groom’s family follows a similar seating arrangement.
 

Giving the bride away

Unless you are personally estranged from your father, it is he who walks you down the aisle and gives you away.
 

The receiving line

Traditionally, the bride’s mother stands in the receiving line and her father mingles with the guests. However, if you want both parents in the line, separate your divorced parents with the stepparents or grandparents to eliminate confusion among the guests. If you are serving a sit-down dinner, assign separate tables for each of your parents and their spouses.
 
 

Pre Marriage Counseling

December 4th, 2014

 

Pre Marriage Counseling

It is natural to experience some fear before “tying the knot” – marriage is an important decision. A great way to help assure lifelong success is pre-marriage counseling. Whether your goal is to get to know one another better or be as prepared as possible, counseling is a good investment in your future.
 
Sometimes people need help resolving old relationship hurts, or managing step children and blended family concerns. Addressing these issues before marriage prepares you for a complete life together. Give one another the gift of security and comfort and enjoy your love forever.
 
 

Blending Two Families

December 4th, 2014

 

Blending Two Families

 
For all their joy, weddings are sometimes charged with potentially explosive situations, namely the feelings of divorced parents, stepparents and children-either yours or your groom’s.
 
Include the children in all appropriate prenuptial planning and festivities. Be sensitive to their reactions. No matter what the relationship is Read the rest of this entry »

Avoiding Stress

December 4th, 2014

 

Avoiding Stress

As anyone who has ever been through a wedding can tell you, the months leading up to your big day can be a time of stress as well as happiness… there’s so much to Read the rest of this entry »

12 Tips for a Strong Marriage

December 4th, 2014

 

12 Tips for a Strong Marriage

 

  1. Support one another’s goals and achievements.
  2. Respect each other.
  3. Take time to share dreams and goals on a regular basis with your spouse.
  4. Consider daily dialogue as a means of improving your communication.
  5. Laugh together at least once a day.
  6. Be honest.
  7. Fight fair.
  8. Be willing to forgive.
  9. Remember kindness towards each other is a great gift.
  10. Share your daily expectations.
  11. Make decisions about finances, disciplining the children, chores, vacations, etc., together
  12. Take time to be alone together working on your intimacy.

 
 

Starting Your Own Family Traditions

December 4th, 2014

 

Starting Your Own Family Traditions

 
Using a family tradition that has been passed down from generation to generation can make your wedding more meaningful. Looking to start a family tradition for your wedding that can be passed down to your children and their children?
 

Here are a few ideas:

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